My First Kiss Went a Little Like This
I was eighteen, and he was my first real boyfriend.
Would I kiss him again? Don’t count on it.
It was in the rain but that does not make kisses romantic, no matter how well they go. This kiss was horrid; this kiss was forced. I didn’t really have a choice to avoid it – he sort of reeled me in and did not let go until he was through. And it was at church, too. In front of people.
Ugh.
I had told him I did not want my first kiss that way. He didn’t listen. He doesn’t listen, unless he wants to do so.
His lips were dry and rough, his tongue might as well have been playing tongue hockey with my tongue in my mouth, his hands were tightened around my arms – it was so not what I had EVER imagined.
Let’s just say I haven’t been kissed since then – by MY choice.
I know everyone is different. But still. I think I’ve been traumatized? But two, I don’t WANT to kiss another guy right now. I don’t care to. I will in the future. But right now isn’t the right time. I haven’t found the right guy yet, either.
You know, the guy that weakens my knees, makes me speechless and takes my breath away? …the guy that will love me for me and makes my heart race and race and race and race…
FAIRYTALE. I don’t think that exists for me. At all. For some people all that stuff I mentioned above exists (Georgina would be one example).
But I don’t think it does for me.
Anyway, it’s thirty-three minutes passed eleven at night (or twenty-seven minutes until midnight). I’m going to hit the hay (go to bed) because I am EXHAUSTED.
Goodnight. 
This entry was posted on July 17, 2010 and has 5 comments. was filed under the categories Boyfriends, Get to Know Me, Relationships.
“You’re going to hit the hay?” Aw. Look at you, Liz, the new cowgirl. :P
I am a big fan of HEA (Happily Ever After) myself. Thus my addiction to romance novels. I don’t know whether you read a lot of books or not, but there is this book, “Bet Me.” It is hilarious. Awesome. Sweet. It is about those who don’t believe in HEA. I am not saying this will make you believe in HEA but it would definitely WANT to believe.
If you want you can download the e-book from 4shared.com for free in a couple of minutes. It has been written by Jennifer Crusie.
Ha ha. I have never been kissed. Not even close, except ones when my ex-boyfriend pecked me on the cheek. We broke up soon after.
I hope it is special. But you never know.
Oh ,I liked the idea. There is no down side to it, anyway. Even if nobody participates, I can write it off as a bad attempt.
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Hey I’m Josie,
first of all I just wanted to say I was listening to that song when I read your blog ahaha ^.^
Secondly I know what you mean about a fairytale first kiss, I wanted one too xD
In the end it happened in a game of truth or dare, lame right?? aha at least it was with the guy i liked. /wink
But I realised i don’t care that my first kiss didn’t mean anything, you can still have a fairytale kiss, doesn’t matter if it’s the first or thirtieth kiss you’ve had =P
But yeah, speaking of kissing aha, I was going to have my first real kiss today but my mother ended up ruining that fairytale as she always does :/
Anyway I’m sure you’ll have a fabulous ‘first kiss’ one day
Awesome site by the way :]
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Woah I’m so sorry about what happened:-s. My first kiss was something that I don’t wanna remember. Was with my first boyfriend(person that I didn’t loved and broke up after 2 days) and was like a kiss. For me wasn’t important because were others. Kissing is a nice pleasure, you shouldn’t be afraid to kiss again a boy. If you find a right guy I’m sure you’ll like it.
I couldn’t quit blogging too, because when you have something in mind and you can’t tell to someone from your offline life, you go and write on your blog. It’s like a best friend who will never tell your secrets to somebody:D
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I am soooo sorry to hear that your first kiss was that bad. I’ll tell you, yes, I’m taken by a lovely guy and we’re in love, but it’s not all perfect! In fact, today we had a fight that took some hours to fix up. He wasn’t my first kiss either. (We’ve kissed in the rain and it was gentle, not forced.)
In a way I wanted to share my own experiences. My first kiss was at school in front of people. Embarrassing. It was just a little kiss on the cheek but – wow. :P
I’ve had a kiss forced on me, pretty much. It was kind of half-cheek half-mouth. Guys can be real jerks, yeah?
Sometimes the perfect guy isn’t the right guy. I have a friend who is a hopeless romantic just like me. We have the same interests and talk to each other a LOT. After spending a lot of time with him I realised that he’s just not the right guy for me, and even though I liked things about him – it wasn’t love. Maybe it’s because I have James, but still. Love can’t be perfect and sometimes we have to put up with fights and accept flaws of our partner. It kind of has to grow.
Yet, someone who will not respect your wishes about a simple sign of affection should be shot! I’m not being serious… exactly… but a guy with no respect, like the guy you first kissed – is not a guy worthy of your attention. I’m glad you’re staying true to yourself.
I haven’t been summoned for jury duty yet though a few of my friends have. They get annoyed haha, one got pulled in twice.
You’re a wonderful person, Liz.
I like this attitude you’ve got now. It’s a reason why I, too, feel open when I comment on your posts. <3
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:] Thnx for commenting me. I like your website it’s very interesting. In a good way.Why aren’t you an avatar fan?
Of course i’m too young too have my first kiss and i’m not looking forward to getting one. You kinda got put out of your comfort zone huh? I know how you feel except in a different way. (: P.S.My sister swore shwe would only have her first kiss on her wedding day. Weird! =P
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